When it comes to “conventional dating” (this is the term I’ll use from this point forward) you have to ask yourself, what are you really getting out of it? “Conventional dating full of swiping on people’s pictures. When people swipe, what do they think of?
“She’s not pretty enough for me”
“She doesn’t have a good job or make enough money for me”
“She doesn’t look easy enough for me”
When these men are swiping, they’re swiping on you. This is “conventional dating” now. A bunch of entitled men who are always looking for the next best thing. And for what? What are they actually providing, that you can’t give to yourself? Even if you do end up dating one of them, eventually the relationship will end. What do you have to show for it?
A broken heart
Memories of arguments
Someone who talked down to you
Someone who lied or cheated on you
Being Unappreciated
Today men for the most part are still expected to pay for dates. How does it feel when a man pays for the date? You feel appreciated. However, a sense of entitlement has been growing among men. Now, a man may suggest a walk in the park or coffee instead of a real date. No offense, but a walk in the park sounds boring and can only provide so much unless your planning a run or a work out. As for coffee… I have my own at home!
“Conventional dating” is riddled with games of wondering if the other person likes you, if the other person appreciates you, and if the other person will stay with you. Relationships can leave you heart broken and alone. At least with a sugar daddy, there are no games. A man not only pays for dinner, but a bunch of other fun stuff like shopping, spa treatments, vacations, and often your time on top of that.
Now, doesn’t that feel like appreciation?
A sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship is nothing, but transparent. Imagine that a relationship is built on transparency! An arrangement is made and discussed. No more guessing or wondering. If relationship ends at least you have something to show for it other than a broken heart.